You have found the gown. Now enjoy it.

Your reception is meant to be lived in, not guarded. A little preparation lets you forget about the dress and remember only the night.

Moving through the room

Walk with your gown lifted a few inches in front, a hand gathering the skirt at your side. Take shorter steps than usual, especially on stairs and thresholds. If you have a train, a friend or bridesmaid can follow behind you for the first few turns.

Sitting down

Skirts need room. Gather the fabric toward the sides before you sit, rather than trapping it underneath. Sit toward the front edge of the chair so the skirt can fall naturally.

Dancing

If your bustle has been done well, it holds through the night. For the first dance, give yourself a moment beforehand to check that it is secure. Lift the skirt slightly for faster songs, and keep an eye on where other feet are.

Bathroom breaks

Go before you need to, and bring a trusted person. They can hold the skirt while you manage the rest. Lift fabric in layers rather than all at once, and take your time.

Drinks and desserts

Clear and colorful spills can stain over time. Pick a glass with a stem you are comfortable holding, keep it away from the skirt, and ask someone to hold it if you are hugging a lot of guests. If something does land on the gown, blot, never rub, and mention it when you drop it off for cleaning.

A small quick fix kit

Ask someone to keep a little bag within reach: safety pins, clear tape, a small sewing kit, a spare hook and eye, a lint roller, blotting cloths, and a mini steamer or wrinkle spray. Add a few bobby pins and a mint. It takes up very little space and covers most of the small surprises.

Our team is always happy to walk through your bustle and answer questions before the day. Message us on Instagram and we will take it from there.