Mother of the Groom: Coordinating With the Mother of the Bride

Reach out early

A short, friendly note to the mother of the bride goes a long way. You are not trying to match, only to avoid surprises on the day.

Share formality and length

Agree on the general level of dress, such as floor length or tea length, rather than on a color. Formality is the part that is most noticeable when it differs.

Wait for the palette

Once the bride has chosen her gown and the wedding colors are set, your choices become much clearer. Ask the couple for their palette and the style of the day.

Steer clear of the bride’s tones

Avoid white and ivory, and ask whether the bridal party’s color is one to avoid. A neighboring shade in the same family usually works beautifully.

Shop on a similar timeline

Plan to shop four to six months before the wedding, with time for alterations. Mother of the groom is just as welcome at Bliss, and we help with color, formality, and venue so nothing clashes.